Guppie pic!!

As another side this is a new picture of little Guppie!! He is still one of the cutest i have ever seen, and of course Bob had to dress him up all in Yankee stuff. (but we won't fault the little man for that!) Darcy also put up some other pics on her myspace page, and while all the pics are great... the ones with Darcy, Bob and Connor as just freaking adorable!! I am soo happy that they have the family they have always wanted!

It's 5 o'clock Somewhere!

I AM GOING TO SEE JIMMY! i use to work at Verizon Wireless Music Center a.k.a... Deer Creek (which it will always be!) in Noblesville, and i have gotten the privelge to see and hear ALOT of great concerts. But tomm 7/29 i will be heading to one of the most interesting experiences i have yet to have... THE JIMMY BUFFET CONCERT! basically if any of you don't know, the concert is like one HUGE party. so it will be interesting! i am sooo excited. and mom is going with me and she is a big Buffet fan! I went into fort wayne the other day and she has her grass skirt, and shark fin hat... yeah little scared! LOL! guess mom it def where i get the craziness side of me! LOL

as for the last post... thank you emma and jillie for your great words... and i don't even know what was up with me at that point in time. prolly just had to get something out of my head. and jill you started this blog thing! LOL LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH!

Just something that popped into my head

Maybe this is just me, but maybe not. Have you ever wanted to be with someone or not be with someone and things just aren't' working out? I know this is confusing... and if you were in my head right now you would kinda know where i am coming from. (that is if you would not get lost in everything that i am trying to make sense of at this point in time, which is like usual... ALOT!!) Anyways, trying to get back to the point....

I have not ever done the relationship thing... i have meantioned that before in prolly a previous blog, and if you know me you know that is the truth, but lately i have sorta tried get out there. Now this hasn't worked so well... in fact it really hasn't worked at all. I met a guy that i was determined to at least give a shot... then come to find out that he has about 3 or 4 kids but different women, is 35yrs old, and still lives with his parents. Not exactly where i would like to start. But i was going to give him the benefit of the doubt, then the stalker-ish side of him came out, and lets just say, i wish he would loose my number! Then another guy took and interest, but he had just broken up with his long-time girlfriend, .... not looking to be a rebound. And reading this i am starting to wonder if i seem to just make excuses in order to not take that first step. I think i want to, but looking at this i would have to 2nd guess myself.

Another thing is that i might not have alot of time for a boyfriend yet. I work ALOT! and never know when i might have to get called in... which if i was the kind of person that said no, it wouldn't matter... but saving up to buy a house will make one work ALOT of hours. Plus there is a factor that i have not had to "answer" or "check " in with anyone in my life... i don't mean for this to sound bad, cuz it's not ness. a bad thing. I just mean that i haven't had to think about someone else before doing whatever it is i want to do... and about 80% of the time, i don't even know what i am doing before i do it. (as little sense as that makes)

But here is the thing, i am usually just the friend. I hang out with guys WAY more than i do girls... and enter into the "friend zone" which is good... if that is where you want to be. Which in most cases i do want to be in that zone... but there are certain times that you think... what if? but the problem with "what if" is that you don't know what the other person is thinking. And i am usually WRONG! lol... Now the question is .... what do i do? And there are prolly alot of different answers to this quetion, which some might lead to more questions... i am just all confused in this area, and prolly need to get professional help with this! haha, (i hope that was a joke) But for now, i am just going to focus on myself. And that is important to me... and kinda what i am use to doing in a way. I am thinking about getting on a fire department and volenteer my time there... so that should be interesting. I am going to learn to not care what others think.. and just make myself happy. not that i wouldn't be happy with someone else in my life... but i have to start somewhere. So for now... i am just going to be me.... and that's all i can be.

MY Bucket List

ok, so i am sitting here at work... and a thought popped into my head so i decided to share it. Lately there is a movie that came out called "The Bucket List" now, i have not watched the movie, however i have seen the previews and kinda know what it is about. So as the random thought of the movie popped into my head i kinda wondered... If i had a bucket list ... what would be on it. (for those who don't know the movie is basically about 2 people who are about to die ..."kick the bucket" ... and do things that they have never done or have prolly ever thought of doing before they do die)

so here is what i think i would like to do before it is my time to go.... (which hopefully doesn't happen for awhile) .... in no order

1. go out of the united states at some point in time and visit other cultures

2. build a house, not really for myself but for habitates of humanity

3. see a meter shower

4. climb a mountain

5. ride a bull

6. bungee jump

7. sky dive

8. white water raft

9. love unconditionally

10. learn sign language

11. make a difference in someone's life

12. watch the face of someone seeing the world for the first time

13. witness a miracle (kinda walk to remember-ish... but still)

14. watch as many sun sets and sun rises as possible

15. have my father walk me down the isle

16. lay on a private beach

17. go on a cruise

18. see as much of the world as possible

19. walk through a rain forrest (and not get eaten by a big bug or come back with some funky disease)

20. know that no matter what happens to me, everyone else will be happy

now i am sure that if i keep thinking i could come up with more or even better ones... but that's a good start i think. but no matter what happens in my life the number one thing i want to happen is to be happy. take the bad, the ugly, and the wonderful all together and as long as you can still wake up the next morning and start a new day everything will be fine. and if i go get to do some of these things... you can bet i will be able to look back at my life and say....

BABY GUPPIE!

ok, so it's like 2am, and i know have i to add to this blog thing, and let's face it i am really bored here at work! so i decided to introduce my readers (prolly only jill) to baby Connor Robert Fish, Darcy's and Bob's little one... or as i call him Guppie! (cuz we all know that a baby fish is called a guppie, yeah he will prolly continue to be called that from me until he decides he wants to start dating and i am forced to not embarrass him anymore!)
He is one of the cutest little ones i have seen, then again everyone says that. but Guppie is truly a wonderful baby, hardly cries, unless he wants food or has bad gas (let's face it he is his mother's son when it comes to that!) lol. This picture i took of him is when we were getting ready to go on a drive (Darcy was driving, i do not trust myself for that big responsibility yet and prolly won't for a long time!) and then Darcy looked at me, after i had fastened the car seat wrong around him, and said that it was too hot for a blanket. This is one of the many reasons why if or when i do have kids... they are going to need alot of help! not to mention that i got lost in Babie's R Us... yeah that's another story.
BUT ... be proud of me, i did change a one of the YUCKIEST diapers the other day when i was over there... and let me tell ya... he sat there and smiled at me while i was in shock that someone sooo little could make that big of a mess! but i love him, and therefore i will do anything for the little stinker! LOL.

I am employeed!

Things are working out now... FINALLY! i am now employed as a full time person with a real job!! how exciting! lol... now looking forward to getting my own house with a dog! yeah i know real exciting... but at least something to look forward to. not that i am not looking for other options, i would like have my weekends off and more money is never a bad thing. but i like doing what i do for the most part, and if i would leave i would really miss the guys making fun of me via text messages and all the other way they seem to get that job done! LOL just wanted to let you know... and thanks jill!

Snap, Crackle, Pop!

Well... it's that time of year again! and i for one am totally excited about it! BONFIRES!!! WOOOHOOOO!!! lol. what can i say, always been a country girl at heart, born and raised, nothing will ever change that! and i love a good bonfire! you have to admitt that they are great anyway you look at them... well as long as they are under control and don't catch other things on fire, which is where you would make me actually have to work and let's face it... that's not nice! LOL!
but seriously think about it... bonfires are GREAT! you and a group of friends, or just you and your boyfriend/girlfriend, significant other, ... whatever you crazy kids are calling it now a days! ;) for a more romantic feeling. but nothing is better to me than to chill by a fire, kick back, relax, maybe have a few drinks, (that is if you aren't planning on driving anywhere or you have a dd, or heck make them virgins!) either way... you are outdoors, relaxed... sounds of the crickets, snapping and popping of the flames and wood... seriously it's fun!
the only draw back is that you come home smelling like a bonfire... not the best thing in the world but an exception that i am willing to make! so here's wishing everyone a safe, happy, WONDERFUL BONFIRE SEASON! and stay safe out there! :)